The month of September was ushered in quite unceremoniously
for our young ones. On a Friday night, while young teenage girls slept in their
school dormitory, hell paid them a visit and not only maimed but also claimed
lives, just to prove a point.
When the girls at Moi Girls School, Nairobi, went to bed that
night, it never crossed their minds that for a minute they could possibly live
through the horror of the fateful night. Young, vibrant, healthy adolescents
engaging in bedtime banter, changing into multi-colored pajamas, brushing their
teeth and teasing each other about being homesick.
In the wee hours of the morning, they were fighting for their
lives, fleeing from a fire that was intent on killing them. Many escaped unhurt
but it does not mean that they avoided the emotional trauma. Seeing their
school mates who sustained life-threatening burns and knowing there are those
who lost their lives in the inferno, burnt beyond recognition will leave them
scarred forever. Those who escaped with injuries have to contend with both the
physical and emotional scars.
It is a national disaster for children to lose their lives in
the very places they are expected to be safe. It says a lot about us as a
nation, none of it flattering. Trauma is the leading cause of death among
adolescents worldwide. The commonest form of trauma may be from road accidents
but other causes such as contact sports and violence are also contributory.
Overall, adolescents are a fairly healthy section of the
population. For this very reason, their health is often overlooked until things
get out of hand. Most adolescents are deemed to have attained some level of
independence hence are not as closely monitored. They develop their own
lifestyles and friends who they spend time with outside the home and more often
than necessary, get into mischief.
Being out of sight from the parents means that they have to
report ill health to their parents or caregivers. This could result in delays
in picking up the problem and seeking care. A lot of adolescents also spend a
fair part of the year away from home in boarding schools where their well-being
is entrusted to total strangers. Unless these young people have pre-existing
chronic conditions that are well-documented, they are hardly taken seriously
when they fall ill.
How this leaky system has existed for decades is hard to
fathom. Many a times a sick teenager has been dismissed when she complained of
headache, only to end up in the emergency room with severe malaria. Or the
lanky basketball player who’s cough was taken lightly, only to end up with
tuberculosis on oxygen support in the wards. These cases are purely as a result
of these children’s initial complaints being taken lightly by the immediate
supervisors until it is too late.
As much as most parents are intimidated by the colonial setup
of our school systems, they are the primary guardians of their children and
must demand the opening of conversations around changing these systems.
Children are voluntarily taken to boarding schools by willing parents. How did
these schools turn into maximum security prisons? Why should a child be
restricted from speaking to their parents for weeks?
Depression is now ranked as a leading cause of morbidity
worldwide. In a world where 25% of the population is thought to suffer
depression, it is self-defeating to ignore that adolescents are part of that
statistic. Depression is an organic illness. We can have school counsellors and
other support systems for the children but the most important thing is to
recognize when an adolescent crosses the line from being a teen worrying about
acne and fitting in to being a patient in need of a definitive diagnosis and
attendant medical care.
For this to happen, parents need to get their heads out of
the sand. The adolescent children need as much attention as the toddlers.
Depressive illness is a disease that requires medical attention. The myths must
be broken to enable our children to have a fighting chance. No it is not
witchcraft or curses. It is a medical condition just like asthma or diabetes.
We must accept it, get help for our children and support them to live a full
life. The real curse is when we ignore it and our children end up taking their
own lives and in the process sometimes taking others with them.
Every adolescent must be viewed holistically. The first
pillar in this triad of health is their physical well-being, the second being
their mental health and the third is their sexual well-being. Annual physical
check-ups should be on the family to-do list, encouraging the young ones to
speak up when they are not feeling well. Parents should not be shy to question
behavior change in their children as it may herald the onset of symptoms of
mental ill health. As adolescents grow, they are acknowledging their sexuality
and it is imperative that adequate guidance is provided and their sexual health
needs adequately addressed.
As adolescents transition from childhood to adulthood, there
is also progressive transitioning from paediatric care into adult care in the
hands of physicians, gynaecologists and other specialists. We must aim to make
this transition smooth. It is imperative that the specialists seeing the young
ones for the first time go the extra mile to make them comfortable. Adolescence
is awkward for the developing child and with the self-consciousness that comes
with it, one needs to be extra-sensitive during medical examinations and
procedures. Parents need to provide constant reassurance and be present at all
times to reinforce a sense of security and familiarity.
Our children are our future. We have invested too much to get
them to adolescence. Let us not lose steam on the last lap. We must endeavor to
keep them healthy and above all, safe.
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