Childbirth is the most amazing thing that nature allows us to
experience. Yet it is one shrouded in mystery and very much under-appreciated.
We all get excited when the new baby arrives but not many people, even those
who have gone through the experience repeatedly, have a clue what goes on.
Nature still remains very secretive when it comes to
childbirth. Despite advances in research, scientists still haven’t been able to
explain the exact trigger of the process of labor. Several theories are well
described but this great wonder still holds out on us.
Once the process of labor begins and there are no
complications, it will progress without need for intervention. Doctors and
midwives will tell you that their main job is monitoring the process to ensure
it is going on as it should. It is only in about 20% if cases where
intervention is needed, but, when the intervention is needed, time is
everything.
So why is labor still such a mysterious process? In most
communities, it is viewed as a women’s thing hence minimal male involvement. It
is also a very private affair for the very reason that a woman is at her most
vulnerable at this time and requires all the support that can be accorded.
The pain of labor is just a special kind of pain. It will
progressively get worse until the baby is born and save for an epidural, there
hasn’t really been any successful pain therapy to eliminate it. For
approximately six hours when the mother is in labor, kindly cut her some slack.
She is in a temporary state of intense psychological unpredictability, fully
driven by hormones.
Many women will not remember the happenings of the six or so
hours of active labor. This is the only time a woman will cry out loud but does
not shed a single teardrop. When we see the tears, we get worried. It is not
normal!
Even the best prepared of moms will go through phases of
excitement, confidence and calm, feeling that they got this. Then the pain will
become intense, the hormones running riot and the calm is thrown out of the
window. Labor ward stories are plenty. I’ve had patients get terribly angry at
the spouse, faulting him for making them pregnant and vowing never to let it
happen again. Thankfully this is promptly forgotten once the baby arrives and
he looks so adorable.
There are those who will complain of abandonment by family, midwife
or doctor, even when they are all there, going about their responsibilities. My
friend chased me out of the labor ward for arriving at the hospital late. I
thought I should sit out on the corridor so as not to make her any angrier than
she already was. She flipped when I walked to the door and asked where I
thought I was going. Her doctor didn’t know whether to laugh or cry.
Some moms get off the bed and prefer the cold floor, some
will grasp your hand so tight with every successive contraction that when the
baby comes, you are suffering injuries. A few will even strip naked at the
height of it all and there is no reasoning that will get through to them.
Violence isn’t unheard of. Items have been hurled by
frustrated moms, at the very same people trying to help. Self-injury has been
inflicted especially on the thighs at the height of a contraction, only for the
damage to be appreciated much later when the mom is resting after a job well
done.
However, there are those extremely silent ones who will not
make a sound. They will hold out for as long as it lasts, taking it like a
martyr and the only indication of the fire inside is a creased sweating brow
and the slow measured breathes.
This whole process will culminate in the delivery of a
newborn. The little one has undergone a journey of his/her own. The
contractions that occur to expel them put an enormous amount of strain on them.
Every contraction temporarily cuts of blood supply to the placenta and hence
oxygen supply to the baby. This is akin to holding your breathe as you swim
underwater across a 50 meter swimming pool. It translates to a lowering of the
baby’s heart rate, hence the need to ‘catch their breath’ once the flow is
established, demonstrated by a sudden rapid increase in the heart rate for a
few seconds before normal rate is restored. The mom’s hyperventilation during a
contraction is to push in as much oxygen into her own blood stream so that the
baby can have it when the contraction passes.
The most captivating part of this journey is when the baby
actually comes out. In a natural birth, with or without your help, that baby
will come out! It is a surreal experience to watch this little one instinctively
navigate the pelvis, turning the head through a series of angles to best fit
each level of the pelvis on the way out. Once the head hits the floor of the
pelvis, the baby will majestically lift their heads from a bowed position, to
look at the world for the first time. They even take a pause to take in their
surrounding as they twist their shoulders to the side and then slip them out of
mom one at a time, quickly followed by the rest of the body.
Standing there all gowned, gloved and towel ready in hand,
you definitely get the feeling that you are awaiting the arrival of a very
important person. Your VIP will slide out all covered in fluid, followed by a
gush of blood but that moment is never to be forgotten. A towel over the face
and body to wipe it dry and a wrap to keep them warm and they will take the cue
and announce their arrival by letting out a healthy wail. This is the only cry
that is sure to elicit a cheer and tears of happiness!
Babies don’t wait for us to be ready. They come when they are
ready to. Delivery in the car, at home, on the corridors and on the wayside is
not a strange phenomenon. If it happens and you are in attendance, kindly
accord our VIP the best possible welcome!
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